Carolyn Hax: Husband has one-night stand, wants spouse to ‘let it go’

Dear Carolyn: My spouse of 25 years recently admitted to an affair. This happened after I was suspicious for a while. I finally confronted him after being diagnosed with HPV.

He told various stories and has finally settled on saying he had a one-night stand with someone whose name he couldn’t remember. In the last year, he has admitted to other inappropriate incidents.